While nursing in public is often criticized, this criticism is unfounded and stems mainly from people’s cultural beliefs. Breastfeeding in public is legal in the United States, regardless of where you are1. Because nursing is the primary function of your breasts, and hungry babies are impatient and will not wait to get home to eat, you should nurse your baby when she needs it, even if you are at the mall. That being said, it helps to always offer her your breast before leaving home.
Unless you stay home throughout your entire nursing relationship, you will undoubtedly have to nurse in public every now and then. If you are uncomfortable with public breastfeeding, here are a few ideas that will make it easier.
- Always wear a nursing top and a nursing bra when going out with your infant, even if you don’t plan on being out long – you never know when your baby is going to need a meal. Having easy access to your breasts is key. People will look at you, and having to pull your shirt up and get your breast to come out of a full coverage bra can be quite awkward. Nursing bras have convenient snaps on their straps and nursing tops are usually looser and are designed to provide quick access, so you will reveal surprisingly little skin.
- Keep a nursing cover in your diaper bag. If you are not comfortable with passers by looking at your baby while he is eating his lunch, you can try using a nursing cover. Some babies are principally against them though.
- Keep a Boppy pillow in the car. Nursing in the back seat of your car at a grocery store parking lot can be very convenient, especially if you have a Boppy pillow – a “U”-shaped pillow that fits around your waist. It allows your baby to get comfortable and gives your arms a break.
- La Leche League suggests being on the lookout for convenient spots to breastfeed your baby when arriving at a new public place. It will save you the hassle of running around with a crying infant, looking for a perfect place to nurse2.
All other things aside, your baby’s health and well-being are most important, regardless of who is looking at you and what they may be thinking.
1Anne Robb Pugliese. (2000, December). LLLI-Breastfeeding in Public. Retrieved July 1, 2012, from, La Leche League: http://www.llli.org/nb/nbnovdec00p196.html
2 Michaelene Gerster Trocola. (2005, December). LLLI-Breastfeeding in Public. Retrieved July 30, 2012, from La Leche League: http://www.llli.org/nb/nbnovdec05p238.html
You know that breastfeeding is best for your baby, but what do you do when you encounter challenges? If things don’t go as planned, don’t worry – many nursing mothers experience one or more of these problems.
Breast engorgement (painful swelling of breasts) is the most common breastfeeding problem and is completely natural. It occurs when breasts are not emptied adequately. Some women produce more breast milk than others and experience engorgement more frequently. Breast engorgement may interfere with breastfeeding because your baby may not be able to latch on properly. The best remedy for engorgement is to nurse your baby frequently and to express extra milk by pump or hand when your little one isn’t hungry. MedlinePlus, a service of the US National Library of Medicine, recommends taking warm showers and using cold compresses to treat engorgement (MedLine, 2012).
Sore nipples are another common problem for breastfeeding mothers, especially when they first begin nursing. Since sore and cracked nipples are usually caused by an improper latch, they usually heal as soon as your baby learns to latch on properly. You may need to enlist the help of a professional lactation consultant to correct your baby’s latch. Otherwise, you may be unable to continue breastfeeding due to pain. To relieve pain and help cracked nipples heal faster, use clean warm water and lanolin ointment.
Another frequent breastfeeding problem involves plugged ducts. According to Wolters Kluwer Health, “Plugged ducts are areas in the breast where the flow of milk is blocked, usually by plugs of skin cells and milk. As the milk duct fills and stretches, the surrounding breast tissue becomes tender” (Schenler & Enger, 2010). Plugged ducts can be large and painful and you should contact your doctor if your condition doesn’t improve within a few days. The best way to treat plugged ducts at home is by nursing more often on the affected breast and gentle breast massage.
Mastitis (breast infection) is a painful condition that usually occurs two to three weeks after giving birth due to cracked nipples or plugged milk ducts, and is frequently accompanied by fever and other flu-like symptoms, says Sharon Mass, a doctor from the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists’ (Amy Sirot, Parents Magazine, 2012). This condition causes a part of your breast to become red, engorged and hot. Mastitis often requires a treatment with antibiotics. You should continue breastfeeding your baby, as well as get rest and drink plenty of water. Always contact your doctor if you experience any symptoms of mastitis.
If you experience engorgement, plugged ducts or mastitis, be sure to wear a comfortable nursing bra and avoid underwire bras or bras that are too tight.
Amy Sirot, Parents Magazine. (2012). Nursing Roadblocks. Retrieved June 23, 2012, from Parents
MedLine. (2012). MedlinePlus-Health Information From The National Library of Medicine. Retrieved June
Schenler, R. J., & Enger, L. (2010, August 9). Patient information: Common breastfeeding problems
Wine While Breastfeeding? This is a popular question in the mommy community. We recently posted the question “A glass of wine while breastfeeding. Yes or No????” on our Facebook page. We had fans that came down on either side.
On the side of YES, here are couple of comments:
“Sure. We deserve it and it’s all about moderation and timing.” – Kara W.
“Yes! Its perfectly fine. That being said I still waited until my little guy was 3months old. And that was just to make me feel better. But my doctor in the hospital said it was fine.” – Andrea K.
And on the NO side, here are a couple:
“well no, but not because i’m an anal nazi.. rather because i prefer to ENJOY my class of wine in the silence of my solitude (or with my DH and a HUGE platter of gourmet cheese!!!!! lol) but i must say once I had a beer while nursing and ohmygoodness i’ve never produced so much milk in my whole life i thought i was going to drown my baby and flood the apartment (TMI? sorry!)” – Kari M.
“Personally no. But I’m over cautious. If I were to I’d have to pump and dump to feel okay about it.” – Ariel C.
And here are the jokesters comments:
For you or the baby? – Solomon O.
“A glass of wine WHILE breastfeeding? That’s coordination!” – Jennifer H.
If our response represented a straw poll, I would say most moms are OK with a glass of wine, but no more.
Like our Facebook fans, medical experts are divided as well. While most recommend avoiding alcohol completely while nursing, many recognize that moms may indulge. One of the most common pieces of advise from the experts, is that if you do have a glass of wine or beer, drink it just after you nurse rather than just before.
Another thing we noted amongst response on our page is that several women referred the traditional wisdom that alcohol helps wine breast milk produced. After doing some research, it may seem that this old wives’ tale is not true. Researcher Julie Mennella of Philadelphia’s Monell Chemical Senses Center put this tale to test in 2005 and it seems it fell short. (You can find more about this test here). Now one thing to note is that they used spiked orange juice and not wine.
If you didn’t have a chance to join our conversation on Facebook, feel free to let us know your thoughts on wine while breastfeeding in the comments section below.
Happy Valentine’s Day!!!
This is the day we celebrate LOVE and affection by exchanging gifts, flowers and cards. And sexy intimate underthings are usually popular gifts around this time of the year…even for preggo and breastfeeding mamas. Oh YES! I can personally attest to this as we have been our busiest EVER during these last two weeks:) …LOL, I am sure our NBC’s Today Show feature also had a lot to do with it too
- Our 8 1/2 month preggo model in Bella Cerise Nursing Bra that was featured on the NBC’s Today Show
But why not? All the sacrifice and hard work of carrying a baby for 9 months, gaining weight, giving up some of our favorites foods and drinks, lack of sleep….I mean the list goes on and on. Preggo and breastfeeding moms want to look and feel sexy too… and dammit they deserve to!
- Photoshoot – Our fab model in Amber Plum Nursing Bra
When Kathie Lee Gifford and Hoda made the “That is very disturbing” and “Are women going to breastfeed in that?” comment during our Sexy Valentine’s Gifts feature on the Today Show, it made me realize even more so that You! Lingerie is doing its part to not only change the way pregnant/breastfeeding moms feel about their bodies and their self-esteem, but also the way in which society views them.
Being pregnant or breastfeeding does not mean you can no longer be sexy or feel beautiful. We passionately believe you should embrace your new body, and thus discover new ways of being sexy and feeling confident and good about yourself. We are excited to share these wonderful new products with the world and hope to inspire a new appreciation for and acceptance of a woman’s body in pregnant form. And it begins with you and I embracing this revolution, and sharing our knowledge with others.
- Photoshoot: Preggo model in Azalea Orchid Nursing Bra
So all you preggo and breastfeeding mamas out there, go out and be sexy, not only on Valentine’s Day but everyday. YOU deserve it!!!